Is opposition to gay marriage hate?

here is a story. Let's suppose you know a kid in middle school who eats his boogers. Yeah, what a disgusting habit. That kid thinks there is nothing wrong with eat boogers since we all swallow our own saliva too. what's the difference?! Hum..true.... That kid also says if I eat my booger how does it harm you in anyway? True. That kid also asks "am I not a human being even though I like to eat my booger?" well, yeah, that's right he's still a human being. So you decided to be his friend as long as he doesn't try to offer you his booger to eat :) You try to stop other kids from making fun of him or even beating him up. So you actually try to protect him. But one day that kid comes to you ask you to sign a petition to the national institute of education and you asked him what the petition is all about. He said he wants to petition to change the official English definition of the word booger from "solidified nasal mucus" to "an acceptable and chewy salty snack" he claims this change of definition will gain him rights and equality and stops discrimination, etc. Of course any person with common sense will say "dude, I respect your booger eating habit and I even defended you when other kids try to kick your ass. But man, changing the definition of booger to snack is going way to far. Booger is not snack and I don't want kids around the country to learn that booger is a snack!" How would you feel if that kid after finding out you don't support changing the definition of boogers started to spit on you, hate you, call you a bigot, a close minded fool, and even threatens to hit you? Isn't this story outrageous and ridiculous? Well, that's what gay activists are doing. Even though we Americans disagreed but tolerated their gay behaviors they turn on us and wrongfully accused any Americans who disagree with changing the definition of marriage as hateful and bigots! Well, just to make it plain to gay activists, we do not support changing the definition of marriage the same way we do not support changing the definition of booger to be included as a snack!